What is aBDSM Collar
In the world of BDSM, a collar is a device worn by a person around the neck to indicate their submissive or slave status in a BDSM relationship as proof of ownership. If you’re looking to take the dominant/submissive to another level of control, using a collar on your submissive will satisfy the need. In fact, collars have more than one meaning in a D/s relationship. Sometimes, they can be as meaningful as a wedding ring.
How to Use BDSM Collar
Through collar commands, the dominant could exert control over the submissive, forcing them to kneel, bow, do blowjob, etc. Therefore, learning how to use a BDSM collar is important. To begin with, one needs to consider the size that fits you perfectly. BDSM collars shouldn’t be too tight or too loose, and the submissive should know the way of unlocking the collar.
When using a collar, the dominants should always keep any hair or skin away from collar latches while putting it on their submissive. And give two fingers’ gap between the collar and neck when applying it. If the submissive feel the collar is too tight, they should remind their dominants to stop the ongoing activity to avoid any skin damage.
Types of BDSM Collar
There are several kinds of BDSM collars available in the marketplace, both in the local shops and online shops. Unlike traditional black leather BDSM collar, there are lots of choices online.
Leather BDSM collar
Leather BDSM collar is best for experienced users who are looking to take things to the next level. These traditional products have a tendency to hold up to rougher play and offer a robust experience.
Locking BDSM collar
Taking a step up from the traditional. This locking BDSM collar is not only made of quality leather, but also includes several metallic spikes that line the front and around the neck. Apart from that, there is a chain for easy use.
Metal BDSM collar
Most metal BDSM collars tend to be fairly large and cover up most of the neck. They are worn for fun or a way to restrict neck movement and enhance posture.
Discreet BDSM collar
Discreet BDSM collar is extremely useful. You and your partner know it’s a collar and what meaning it holds, but no one else does. There are no awkward moments, only intimate and kinky BDSM relationships.
Different Collars And Their Meanings
Collar of Consideration
A collar of consideration is a popular choice for new relationships. When you wear this collar, it means you’re under consideration to be your partner’s slave or submissive. Besides, a collar of consideration also signifies that the submissive is being considered for a long- term relationship or ownership. However, it can be revoked for any reason.
This type of collar shows that the relationship is moving to a deeper level of attachment and commitment. To some extent, this collar has the same meaning as an engagement ring, so it tends to be worn for a longer period.
The Formal Collar
It is the equivalent of giving/receiving a wedding ring and shows that the full commitment has been made between two lovers. In other words, the submissive is owned by the dominant now. This type of collar typically doesn’t take off for any reason. If it’s taken off, it can mean the relationship is over or you’re taking a break from the D/s side of things.